The Staggering, Heartless Cruelty Toward the Elderly A global pandemic doesn’t give us cause to treat the aged callously.
President, dean, and chair in Jewish Thought at Hadar
Crises can elicit compassion, but they can also evoke callousness.
Since the outbreak of the coronavirus pandemic, we’ve witnessed
communities coming together (even as they have sometimes been
physically forced apart), and we’ve seen individuals engaging in
simple acts of kindness to remind the sick and quarantined
that they are not forgotten. Yet from some quarters, we’ve also
seen a degree of cruelty that is truly staggering.
Earlier today, a friend posted on Facebook about an experience he’d
just had on the Upper West Side of Manhattan: “I heard a guy who looked
to be in his 20s say that it’s not a big deal cause the elderly are gonna
die anyway. Then he and his friend laughed … Maybe I’m lucky that
I had awesome grandparents and maybe this guy didn’t but what is
wrong with people???” Some have tried to dress up their
heartlessness as generational retribution. As someone tweeted at
me earlier today, “To be perfectly honest, and this is awful,
but to the young, watching as the elderly over and over and over
choose their own interests ahead of Climate policy kind of feels like
they’re wishing us to a death they won’t have to experience. It’s a
sad bit of fair play.”
Notice how the all-too-familiar rhetoric of dehumanization works:
“The elderly” are bunched together as a faceless mass, all of
them considered culprits and thus effectively deserving of the
suffering the pandemic will inflict upon them. Lost entirely is the
fact that the elderly are individual human beings, each with a
distinctive face and voice, each with hopes and dreams,
memories and regrets, friendships and marriages, loves lost and
loves sustained. But they deserve to die—and as for us, we can
just go about our business.
It is bad enough if we remain indifferent to the plight of our elders;
it is far worse to dress up our failings as moral indignation.
As a rabbi and theologian watching this ethical train wreck, I find
myself thinking about the biblical mandate to “honor your father and
mother.” The Hebrew word usually translated as “honor,” kabed, comes
from a root meaning “weight.” At the deepest level, then, the biblical
command is thus to treat the elderly as weighty. Conversely, the
Bible prohibits “cursing” one’s parents. The Hebrew word usually
translated as “curse,” tekalel, derives from a root meaning “light.”
At bottom, then, the biblical proscription is on treating the elderly
lightly, as if they are inconsequential.
Why do I say “the elderly”? In its biblical context, the obligation to honor
parents is a command given to grown children
(as are the Ten Commandments more broadly—you don’t tell
children not to commit adultery nor to covet their neighbors’ fields).
When you are an adult, the Bible instructs, you must not abandon
the elderly. Giving voice to a pervasive human fear, the Psalmist prays,
“Do not cast me off in old age; when my strength fails, do not forsake me!”
What does it say about our society that people think of the elderly so
dismissively—and moreover, that they feel no shame about
expressing such thoughts publicly? I find myself wondering whether
this colossal moral failure is exacerbated by the most troubled parts of our
cultural and economic life. When people are measured and valued
by their economic productivity, it is easy to treat people whose most
economically productive days have passed as, well, worthless.
From a religious perspective, if there is one thing we ought to teach our
children, it is that our worth as human beings does not depend on or
derive from what we do or accomplish or produce; we are, each of us,
infinitely valuable just because we are created in the image of God.
We mattered before we were old enough to be economically productive,
and we will go on mattering even after we cease to be economically
productive.
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Varied ethical and religious traditions each find their own ways to
affirm an elemental truth of human life: The elderly deserve our respect
and, when necessary, our protection. The mark of a decent society is that
it resists the temptation to spurn the defenseless. It is almost a truism
that the moral fabric of a society is best measured by how it treats the
vulnerable in its midst—and yet it is a lesson we never seem to tire of
forgetting. “You shall rise before the aged and show deference to the old,”
the Bible says—look out for them and, in the process, become more human
yourself.
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SHAI HELD is the president, dean, and chair in Jewish Thought at Hadar,
where he also directs the Center for Jewish Leadership and Ideas.
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